The Sugar Daddy

There are even sugar daddy dating websites.

I am sure you’ve heard all those stories…once our HIV?AIDS lecturer ( a very interesting guy) told us of his UoN days, how they once stoned the cars of these very much older guys who used to take their girlfriends. He also told us how they used to watch porn in the TV room, and leave with hands in their pockets…I guess to wank in the privacy of their rooms. But that’s a story for another day.

The typical sugar daddy is over 40 years old, married, and rich. Or whatever else he is, however he may look like, he must be rich.

You are likely to meet him at the workplace, because let’s face it, you and he exist in different social circles. He will be professional and helpful at first. Then he’ll suggest lunches, probably dinners. He’ll take you shopping and to expensive places. And if he’s smart, he wont ask anything of you just yet.

He will begin to offer much more…like helping you gather statistics for your project, or lending you a hand in getting ideas, and even publish your idea in some journal or other. Eventually, he’ll offer you a job. If he has influence.

He wont stop there. So now that you are going back to school after internship, and he knows you live in “those filthy hostels” as he calls them, he offers to rent you a place. He tells you to look for a house of your own choice, and he will furnish and pay the rent for it. This is the point you begin to pay because he’ll be coming for weekends at your place, after telling his wife he’s headed for a weekend conference in Nakuru.

This is the situation someone I know is going through. I asked her where her conscience was all this time, I mean the guy is married and she has a boyfriend.

Out of Africa, she replied.

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  2. This sugar-daddy-mummy biz is gaining ground among our young people, atleast everyone knows someone who is dating/ doing a married someone. I am just sitting here waiting for the legalization process to begin :D.

    I wonder what’s the point of marriage then?

  3. A married man is a NO for a lady who value herself. She’ll always be a distant second to the wife and she’ll be a mistress until she depreciate and be replaced. Never shall she graduate to a wife.

    Maybe she can be a mistress for a while? While she searches for a husband of her own. C’est la vie.

  4. Your posts give me life. What’s the secret ? lol

    it’s seeing the fun side of life…that’s the secret. it’s never that serious.

  5. Guys actually get money from their clandes to take their college boys or gals out

  6. really education and so true …seems like you r talking out of experience .. lol !

    haven’t had a sugar daddy experience yet….my conscience isn’t out of Africa yet!

  7. WTF!! Websites?? WAko wapi hawa…I want *sneer*!!

    I can hook you up…

  8. worst case scenario is when the sugar daddy is a rich relative…and yes who comes asking for things and is given!where was that persons mind? def not planet earth…

    sugar daddies should not be related to you in any manner….it’s already shameless enough to have a sugar daddy, it has to be your relative now?

  9. at times we are compeled to!

    we can never really justify it!

  10. I’d really really like to have a sugar daddy. HOOK ME UP!

    JFGI

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    I see.

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  12. He he he eti to wank in the privacy of their rooms 🙂

    Your friend knew what she was doing let her not lie.

    she hasn’t lied.

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